Bone for Bone, We Are the Same

I think I owe it to myself to write this blog, because it’s long over due. These thoughts have been feverishly running through my mind, but I finally feel like I can write this without feeling like I’ve exposed too much and with the right amount of vulnerability. I guess that’s the trick to being…

Beautiful and Damned.

“Love is a choice, you have a heart of gold”, I read those words on my Twitter account in reply to which I tweeted “the thing about having a good heart is that you think everyone else does too.” Maybe it’s the youthful naivety in me, or my wide eyed gaze, but I always assume…

Heartbreak, Hell or HighWater

Heartache, it’s me. I’m not about to Hello Adele Ya; but It’s been a long time since we’ve seen each other. Granted you’ve always had a place with me, but up until now that place had been vacant. I can’t help but feel like I’m greeting an old friend and you werent exactly invited to…

The Yang, Not the Yin.

What a year it’s been…where do I start? I have no clue, but as I’m typing these words. I’ll be improvising on the way. I was always told that life is hard, life a struggle, like there were no other choices on how to approach the adventure that we call life. I don’t want to…

A Lantern Burning: Flickered in My Mind for Only You.

Single. I think that’s a fair word to describe how my love life has been for the past four years, of course there were flings, flakes, fakes, wannabes and maybes. But none of them were substantial enough for me to consider what we had was something that was serious enough to be titled as “a relationship”….

No proof, not much…But it was enough.

I’ve been careful in love. I’ve been careless in love. I’ve had adventures I wouldn’t change for anything. But I know it’s all going to be okay, because for the most part none of us know exactly how our lives are going to turn out and I think it’s better that way. Admire people not…

Magic, Madness, Heaven, Sin.

I feel the urge to write today, so I’ll take advantage of it. It’s not every-day that creativity pays me a gracious visit, so I’m taking advantage of her beautiful presence. She seems to be a bit pretentious though, only acknowledging me when she wants to (but then again, don’t they all). It’s been so…

And The Clock Struck Twelve Midnight

For some strange reason in the process of being 24 for almost 365 days, I’ve changed so much. Maybe the pioneers that came before me, all experienced this young adulthood transition into adulthood realness. I learned that when people leave your life, its sad, but there’s beauty in the departure. It’s a beautiful thing to…

For Better or For Words

When I was younger, I publicly (and ignorantly) showed my enjoyment of any and all relationships that I found myself in, on social media, to my family, to my friends and to anybody else that asked about my relationship status. As if though it was something worth celebrating on that level of publicity, almost like…

On My Way to Pragma

A lot has happened since I last blogged about my life. When I’m not blogging, I’m casually living my life as a horribly entertaining episode of Queer as Folk. I guess when I date someone, I learn a lot about them after it (the relationship? us dating? us talking? Talking, UGH. I’ve always hated that….

Write, Said My Soul.

When I was the wide-eyed age of nineteen years old, I didn’t want the routine life. I wanted more. More than going to school, getting educated and getting hitched. Maybe its the restless heart that resides within me, because once I saw that I had options. I wanted to explore them. I knew that my purpose…